Here are five ways to lead with empathy:
- Be present. When interacting with team members, give them your full attention, and show genuine interest in their needs, perceptions and emotional experience.
- Be curious. Empathetic leaders take an active interest in their employees’ wellbeing. Check in regularly with team members. Go beyond the perfunctory “How are you?” and ask open-ended questions to get a fuller picture of how they’re doing at work and in their personal lives.
- Listen closely. Empathetic listening means having an open mind — taking in feelings as well as facts, context as well as content, so you can fully understand what your team member is trying to say.
- Offer support, not solutions. Empathetic leaders don’t swoop in and save the day. Instead, they offer guidance, tools and support to help team members problem-solve and develop solutions on their own.
- Build psychological safety. Leading with empathy means providing psychological safety in the workplace. Encourage inclusivity, open communication, respectful debate and non-defensive, honest feedback, so that people feel free to share opinions, express concerns and offer ideas and suggestions, without fear of criticism or blame.
To introduce empathetic leadership as a new core competency, your leaders will need proper training and mentoring. Here are some resources to consider:
- Self-paced and instructor-led training: Facilitator and participant guides, workbook, presentations, video modules on leading with empathy.
- Tools: Talking points and worksheets to support empathetic leadership in day-to-day situations.
- Coaching and mentoring: Group and one-on-one guidance to help leaders develop empathetic behaviors.
If you’re still on the fence about empathetic leadership, consider this — according to a Catalyst 2020 survey, employees with highly empathic senior leaders report increased levels of creativity (61%) and engagement (76%). Considering these benefits, leading with empathy is more than a feel-good exercise — it’s a smart way to boost your organization’s productivity and long-term success.